Same-sex daemons

[misterminiver]

Somewhere near the beginning of Northern Lights we hear of someone in Jordan college who was 'one of very few people whose daemon was the same sex as him' or something along those lines. Forgive me for not having the exact quote.
So I was thinking. Given that contact between daemons has an emotional, if not sexual, charge (I'm thinking Mrs Coulter's monkey and Sir Charles's snake in the tent, or Will touching Pan toward the end of The Amber Spyglass), would it be that gay people have same-sex daemons? They would, after all, have more of an emotional connection to someone of their own gender, so perhaps two daemons of the same sex would best communicate this connection.
Anyway, that's what I like to think, and I was just wondering if people think I'm spouting absolute gibberish.

Hello, by the way, and apologies if this has been covered, but I couldn't find it anywhere.

[Melancholy Man]

We have discussed this before, but it was one of the threads "lost" in the "crash". The thread was reinstated, but I suspect it was after the early June back-up we reverted to after the real crash.

Bernie the pastry chef was "was on those rare individuals" with a same-sex daemon, but I don't think he was gay. He was described as kindly and solitary, and presumably good at cooking. This is just the sort who'd be branded a gay-boy in Will's world. Here, I think, PP was making a jibe in the same way he did with the utterly camp Baruch and Balthamos.

Latrom was, I think, bisexual. A lot of his mannerisms and apparel was suggestive of underground homosexuals, such as the scented hankie. However, his second sighting of Lyra (in the library at Will's Oxford) had disturbing hints of his being a 'straight' nonce. Furthermore, he didn't seem displeased when Mrs. Coulter began pleasuring him.

[misterminiver]

I definitely saw the 'nonce' undertones with Latrom looking at Lyra. I never thought of him as anything but straight, with a possible tendency to young girls. His whole interaction with Mrs Coulter dismisses him being bisexual to me. As for the scented hanky and things, he just has too much money and bad taste.
I quite liked the fact that Baruch and Balthamos were so in love, even if they were a bit dramatic about it.
Do people have any other theories for the same-sex daemons then? Why do they occur, what do they indicate about the personality of their 'owner'? It probably is just me, clutching at gay straws.

[Melancholy Man]

Misterminiver wrote:

I definitely saw the 'nonce' undertones with Latrom looking at Lyra.

A nonce is a sex offender.

I never thought of him as anything but straight, with a possible tendency to young girls. His whole interaction with Mrs Coulter dismisses him being bisexual to me.

How so? Bis will give either side tries.

As for the scented hanky and things, he just has too much money and bad taste.

Oh come one! He might as well as worn an earing in... which ear, is it?

I quite liked the fact that Baruch and Balthamos were so in love, even if they were a bit dramatic about it.

They were screaming queens. They might as well have been called Julian and Sandy.

Why do they occur, what do they indicate about the personality of their 'owner'?

The choice of beastie certainly indicates their human's character. Consider the bookish aletheiometrist priest; his was a frog. Father MacPhail had a reptile. The parish priest, hoarding Byrnison's armour, had a pelican... a symbol of arrogance and pride.

Let's hope this doesn't become another debate on the obstetrics of daemonology.

[Naomi Silvertongue]

Was that not the whole point with Bernie,(I think that was his name ) the pastry chef at Jordan College? That his daemon was the same-sex. I always took it to mean that he was a little extra "happy", meaning homosexual.

I did pick up the vibe about Boreal sort of "stalking" and watching Lyra at the museum. It kind of freaked me out, though I never thought of him as being openly gay himself. Now that you mention it though, hmn.......

I did like the fact that the Angels were openly homosexual, that just added another element to the Worlds.

[Tomsy]

I always took it to mean that he was a little extra "happy", meaning homosexual.

Happiness doesn't equate homosexuality.

[Naomi Silvertongue]

Forget I said that, but I always just took it to mean that Bernie was a homosexual.
Or some different person, because most everyone that we knew in the story, whatever your sex was, it was the opposite for your daemon. Though why that is I am still trying to figure out???? Anyone have any ideas, or did they explain that in the story and I miss it. Help!!!!

[jessia]

quoting the man...

TB: There was one point about demons which – you say, I think, right at the beginning of Northern Lights, that somebody’s got a demon of the same sex as themselves, and this is very rare. Now, does that indicate homosexuality? Or what?

PP: I don’t know. There are plenty of things about my worlds I don’t know, and that’s one of them. It might do! But it might not! Occasionally, no doubt, people do have a demon of the same sex; that might indicate homosexuality, or it might indicate some other sort of gift or quality, such as second sight. I do not know. But I don’t have to know everything about what I write.

[voodoo_doll]

At first i thought Boreal was a pedophile but i always figured he was just following Lyra because of the altheiometre. Well he was a nasty piece of work anyway...

[misterminiver]

I didn't think of Latrom as bi because his whole sexual interest seemed focused around women. Just his dress sense wasn't enough for me to think that he liked men too.
Jess - thanks. If PP doesn't know, then I won't worry about it too much either.

[Melancholy Man]

I didn't think of Latrom as bi because his whole sexual interest seemed focused around women. Just his dress sense wasn't enough for me to think that he liked men too.

The scented hankie often *was* a symbol of homosexuality, when it was a criminal offence. Serpents, such as his daemon, are also ambiguous creatures.

[Will]

I've just remember what I said about this the last time it came up. daemons seem to hold the personality the human owner doesn't - for example, Pan is cautious whilst Lyra is reckless, the two making a whole. Therefore nearly all people have a daemon of the opposite sex, so their complete personality is made up of male and female (ahoy generalisation) traits. Hence a male with a male daemon is compromised solely of male attributes, a real man's man.

Totally blown apart from the fact that ol' Bernie's a pastry chef, of course.

[Laura]

I never got the vibe that Latrom was Bisexual--he did strike me strongly during my re-reading phase as a paedophile.

To Will--that makes sense, but some staight men are very good chefs

[Will]

Now if only you could find them eh.

[Laura]

Well there certainly aren't any at this school.

My friend's ex was an excellent cook, but he was also an arrogant ass.

Besides, I'm perfectly happy cooking for myself.

[Naomi Silvertongue]

Like Jess, told us. If Pullman did not know or if it failed to cross his mind that many times, than we should not be so concerned about.

Still it is fun to talk about.

[Danny Barefoot]

I wonder if the most masculine men, think of Arnold Swazerneger, have the least affinity with women, without actually being gay. Bernie's shyness could come from this, or simply from being unusual. Male/female dynamics are a key ingredient of social glue.

[Jamie]

Dæmons seem to hold the personality the human owner doesn't - for example, Pan is cautious whilst Lyra is reckless, the two making a whole.

I guess that makes sense because I thought that mrs coulter always seemed to be having to control the monkey as he tore bats wings off and lunged for Pan. the monkey showed her malice while she acted calm and courteous. *things slowly start to fit together* I'm a genius!

[Tomsy]

I wonder if the most masculine men, think of Arnold Swazerneger, have the least affinity with women

Yeah, someone who uses "You're all a bunch of girly men!" as an insult must be really secure with their masculinity.

[iambe_akka]

On the subject of Boreal I reckon he's anyones friend